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What does done look like?


What does done look like?

In her book Dare to Lead, Dr. Brene Brown discussed a project management idea of "What Does Done Look Like?" When I read the question in the book, it immediately resonated with me. The idea of it is not new in any way. While Dare to Lead is not a productivity book, nearly all productivity books have some sort of conversation in them about clarifying the intended outcome. David Allen's classic Getting Things Done talks about clarifying the "desired outcome" of a project.

But which one resonates more with you:

  • Clarify the intended outcome
  • Clarify the desired outcome
  • What does done look like?

I prefer the simplicity of Brown's option.

I've been thinking about this question a lot in the last few weeks as I set goals and made plans for 2026. While I've been thinking about desired outcomes and what done looks like for decades as I create and execute projects, it's still hard for me to not want to make something just a little bit "extra".

This past week, I spent time planning some of the projects I want to make headway on in the first quarter of 2026. I was careful to clarify what done looked like for right now. This involved a lot of planning and scheduling and really being honest with myself about what I could - and couldn't - reasonably get done between now and the end of March. Two of these projects specifically - updating the Facts of Life Book and launching my first Obsidian Course - are both lifelong projects. I'll never truly be done with them. So, the aim was to figure out what done looks like for just this quarter. And, I'm excited - and feel optimistic - about what I've got planned. I can't wait to share it with all of you.

Do you need to have a hard conversation with yourself about what done looks like on a project or activity? Do you need to have a conversation with someone else about where their work isn't meeting expectations?


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What I Published This Week

  • Speaking of the Facts of Life Book Course, I updated three items in it this week. I'm focusing on the Finance section right now. My plan is to have all the items in the Finance section updated by the end of January. I also adapted and published a piece of that - The Financial Date - on Medium.
  • The second video in the Obsidian Tasks Plugin series - Task Statuses - was released to the Circle Community. It will go live on YouTube at the end of this week. The first video in that series - The Global Task Filter - went live on YouTube.
  • I published my 2026 Predictions. This is the second year I've done a predictions post and it was so much fun to put together.

What's Coming Up?

January 15, 2026 13:00 (Eastern Time (US & Canada))

Do you want to get a better handle on your finances? If so, join me for a free one hour workshop to talk all things money. This is a great time to hold your own financial date with yourself (which I talk about in the Facts of Life Book Course). Get financial questions answered, see software tools like YNAB in action, or just chat about money. This is a judgment free zone so come with your questions. 

January 23, 2026 09:00 (Eastern Time (US & Canada))

Join us for the bi-weekly Obsidian Office Hours Session. Office Hours are a time to ask questions about Obsidian. If you have a question, reply to the event with your questions - or attend live and you can get your question answered in the session.  When appropriate, office hours sessions will be recorded and the recording posted here. 

Now You See Me, Now You Don’t

Gayle and I both LOVE the Now You See Me films. (We also tend to love good heist themed movies.) I think the second film in the series was actually better than the original!

So, we were thrilled when a third installment in this franchise was announced. Over the holiday break we watched Now You See Me: Now You Don't. This hit theaters back in November and is already available to rent, buy, and watch on various streaming services. We opted to buy it and had a fun movie afternoon at home, complete with popcorn. It's my third favorite film in the franchise, but it's still good and I am glad to have it purchased as I will watch it again.

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I Wanna Be Me When I Grow Up

I'm Kara. I create content about personal growth, productivity, and technology, faith, and my well lived life. Subscribe to my weekly newsletter to get a fresh new article, a roundup of anything I published this week, and other fun stuff in your inbox (most) Monday mornings.

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